I suck at being pregnant 37 week update and post melt down blog
I’m just coming down from a quite emotional and HORMONAL moment that started escalating this afternoon at my midwife appointment. The appointment that wouldn’t end is another name for it.
And it seems this time of day, 4-6pm is the hardest time of day for my pregnant body and mind. Isn’t it also ‘witching’ hour for babies? Dalton never had that, he was so happy and chill, probably because I was, which is probably because I didn’t carry him and have any physical pains or symptoms.
So my appointment that went on and and on just kept triggering me more and more. AT this point, I’m days away from being 37 weeks, which seems like more than enough weeks to grow a human now that I’m actually doing it. And I’d been up and around all day, hardly at home after taking Dalton to day care, I went on my normal walk which is about an hour, and FEELS like I ran 20 miles in the rain with soggy shoes (no actually that sounds better than how this feels…..) Then I went to a massage appointment, so you’d think oh how nice and relaxing, and it was while I was there, except for the part when I sneezed and it felt like my stomach was ripping open.
Seriously though it’s the moving from a couch to standing up, to putting on shoes, to going to the bathroom AGAIN before and in between doing anything, driving here or there, walking my body around it just feels so HEAVY.
By the time I got to my midwife appointment i just wanted to be home laying on my side in that ONE position on my pregnancy pillow. But no, it drug out and had all kind of fun facts including:
Learning I gained 5 pounds since last Friday (what?!)
Letting myself be talking into heart rate monitoring for the babe because “I”m old”
Them forgetting to do a test so I needed to go back into my room
Them forgetting I was in this room while the heater turned on and blasted hot dry stale air right at my head
Going straight to get dalton while feeling like peeing my pants
Getting dalton home and him proceeding to SCREAM at me because he grass fed organic burger broke in half and his gluten free bun crumbled and he didn’t WANT the pickles anymore and basically eating only the broken bread and then wanting MY applesauce I just made for me.
I then lost it completely and came to where I am now, in Dalton’s room aka my room during pregnancy for sleeping and meditating and hiding and quiet. And now that my hormones have mellowed just a little I’m wondering WHY am I having such a hard time with all of this?
Is it because I just simply HATE not feeling good in my body? I think yes for sure it’s a huge part of it. But even deeper than that, it’s what that means. You see for many years now, my IDENTITY has become one of a healthy person, even before I was completely ‘fertile’ I was healthy in all other ways, and my body happily responded to the things I did for it. I could run, walk, bend, do pilates, clean, work, take care of dalton, anything without aches or pains or feeling slow or like a fat large turtle.
Essentially all I do each day is that of a healthy person. How I eat, workout, think, work, what I talk about teach about, run courses about, do videos about. It’s about health and feeling good. And for the past almost 9 months it’s felt like I am NOT that girl. And most things I do don’t really just matter a whole lot. Which pisses me off majorly.
It feels like I’m a little kid throwing a tantrum. It’s not fair, and maybe my inner child is doing just that. A lot of this is hitting straight upon my shadow elements, the things I don’t want to be, or be associated with.
Such as being/feeling:
FAT
Lazy
Slow
Incapable